Read on, dear friends, for 10 signs your boyfriend is an unequivocal jerk. Sure, Carrie and Big ended up together but most women agree he was a total jerk for most of their relationship. He looks at his phone more than he looks at you. Instagram can wait. He talks about how hot other women are. He blatantly checks them out. Guess what? Dude needs to learn some discretion, and fast. This is a big one, ladies.
1. He Calls You At 3am, You Answer
2. He Calls You A Bitch, You Break Down And Cry
Sally LeBoy. Margalis Fjelstad. If you are in a relationship with a guy who is not nice to you, you have to get honest with yourself and ask why you would stay in this kind of relationship. His being a jerk has nothing to do with you. Where your role comes in is why you would even consider putting up with his unacceptable behavior? What does that say about you if you put up with it? First, you need to let him know that his behavior is inappropriate and give examples in a calm but assertive way. I would do this when he is calm and not acting out.
10 Signs Your Boyfriend is a Jerk
If you're in a relationship, you might not be watching out for warning signs that your boyfriend is a jerk to everyone. Love is blind, girls. When I was with a guy, I didn't realize that he was a complete tool, even though my friends and family all saw it! If you have a suspicions that your boyfriend might be one too, you definitely want to take a look at my warning signs that your boyfriend is a jerk! Is he obsessed with himself? Does every sentence that comes out of his mouth start with 'I'? This is totally one of the signs that your boyfriend is a jerk, girls! He should care about what is going on with you, not just with him.
It's easy to spot and avoid a guy who is definitely an asshole, but there are plenty of secret, undercover asshole dudes out there, just waiting for the right time to show their true colors. When you tell him a cool story about how this man sent a nice email complimenting something you did at work, he says, "He's probably hitting on you. But really, you're boning a guy who looks inward to his personality, sees a pile of rotting garbage, and shrugs it off, because somehow, in his depraved mind, being bad and knowing it is way better than just being bad. Here's a man who wants to be Cool, he so badly wants to be Cool, but he'd rather not do the work so he just lies about things he thinks are Cool and hopes that's enough to get him by. Seems like a totally inconsequential, NBD thing, right? They seem smart, but actually , they're bad. At a party with friends, he introduces you as his girlfriend who's cool AF, but says nothing about your job or accomplishments or any of the cool shit you do. Sexting is great!