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You are not a worthy RM priesthood holder. There will be pressure to go to church, marry in the temple, Yada Yada You will want to make sure you're ready to battle this for years, maybe a lifetime. Can you live your whole life with a husband you doesnt or never will believe in the mormon church. The Church encourages people to be a good influence on one another, and she will probably expect you to dress well for her. It has always been like this. The thing is, i was already a. The rest of it is all just the normal course of events for someone in this situation, but this isn't a good sign: If he were thinking about you, he'd contact you when he does have the rare free minute or two. To me, life is all about growthвso ask yourselfвwill I grow more staying single and focusing my life on the church, or will I grow more branching out, looking at life from different perspectives, and allowing myself to see options I have not yet considered.
No where did I say, nor I think indicate, that I thought this wasn't a complex issue, or that this girl is a caricature. When you make the best choice for you, blessings will follow. I agree with what you and so many of the other replies have said: Listen with an open heart and curiosity. When I come home, I don't necessarily want to be alone, I just need to do things that will calm or recharge me instead of things that will tire me out more. She is considered "an old maid" by Mormon standards, so she may be willing to marry you--hoping you will convert someday --but she will constantly be reminded that your marriage is inferior to the "Eternal Families" of sealed Mormons, and she will fear dying and never seeing her loved ones again. We have been married a mere 3. The woman's role is to grow up, marry a worthy priesthood holder, and have a lot of kids. I am not married yet, there is some consolation in that.