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If you have something to add, please send us a note: hello theatlantic. My first sexual experience was rape, in the sense that I was coerced and given drugs and alcohol. I was 14 years old, and the girl was She was much more worldly, and very pushy. They told me to go away, that I was imagining things. Eventually, after a long time, it went away on its own, with me completely ignorant of what it was until many years later. A few years ago I was at a small party with a few close friends and some other guests. I had been drinking prior to the party and so by midnight I was very intoxicated. Around the time I decided to get into bed, I blacked out.
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Save talking to this guy -- or discovering you became pregnant or contracted a sexually transmitted infection -- there's no way for you to find out what went on at this point. Had you gone into the police or the hospital right away, they could have looked for traces of semen or abrasions to your vulva , but even if something had happened, those things are not always present or something a person can find or assure. However, if this guy is not someone you know in terms of being safe for you, and you or your friends know or have the idea that he knew you were drunk and it sounds like it would have been pretty obvious you were , I'd not make contact with him, since we're talking about a date rape here. Instead, I'd consider going to the police or a hospital to be examined as soon as possible. They can take any evidence there that might be left and then you'll have what you need to be able to press charges if you decide that is something you want to do. But it does sound like your memory includes at least an attempt at vaginal entry or some kind of sex , so what I'd suggest, at the very least, is getting into your doctor's office in the next month for testing for any infections. If it's been less than hours since this happened, you also have the option of using emergency contraception -- see: Emergency Contraception Plan B or the Morning-After-Pill -- in the case that there was a pregnancy risk. Unfortunately, those are really your only options at this point when it comes to finding out if something happened -- and it sounds like it did -- and doing what you can to protect yourself from or manage any negative physical consequences after-the-fact. Please, please, PLEASE remember that while someone doing something sexual to you while you are inebriated or blacked out means you are not in a position to give legal consent, and therefore, we're often talking about a sexual assault , that getting wasted does put you at a greater risk of sexual abuses, assaults, and of you voicing or otherwise expressing consent when you're in no position to do so. As well, when people are drunk, they tend to skip things like safer sex and birth control , get engaged in sex or keep company with people who just aren't safe or sound.
