After seeing a few of the tweets under the FatSideStories tag, I was flooded with personal examples of externalized fatphobia. As a way to break this down and remove its influence over our fat person lives, we must be able to acknowledge it, challenge it internally, and then fight it outwardly by living courageously and actively ignoring these messages. My fat friends, I know many of you will relate to this post and I want to say that I am proud of you for living and being and continuing to grow despite it all. Grow grow grow. Become the people you want to be and do not be afraid of taking up space on this planet. And to my thin friends, please take this as an opportunity to experience just a pinch of what your fat friends have experienced their whole lives. Take this as a chance to acknowledge your thin privilege, a chance to change the ways you are externalizing your fatphobia, and lastly a chance to empathize with your fat friends.
Have a good and safe night! Drive safe, get home safe, and most importantly, if you have pets, make sure they know you love them very much! Que: Pochari got sick and her hands have reached their limit for the night because they hurt so much. In the meantime. Admire this beautiful Lily! My thighs are a perfect place to rest your head. I was tagged by the adorable unicorn-cupcake-lace for a selfie. And I never miss out on the opportunity to post my face. How are we all this eve?
Ask her right out if she is at all interested in leaving TSCC. I let her know I'd been reading on LDS. You should ask yourself if you want to have input on the way your children are raised. Since her father is a bishop, I'm sure he'll want to have his daughter marry a temple worthy person.
Finding a person with whom your wavelength matches, and around whom you feel you can just be yourself, talk about anything, and not be worried about being judged, is not as easy as the romantic movies and TV soaps make it out to be. But it's the away rotations for months at a time that get really hard. Honestly, I have given up on lds men as a single 25 year old. I gave her a piece of my mind as my home is much happier and healthy now then when I was married to my x. I am one to really like my space and opportunity to do my own thing and little projects.